Ok guys, I was live tweeting last night and got a little negative feedback. You have to understand, I see the show from a different perspective than you. I didn’t feel I was being too harsh, they were my real feelings. I have to start by telling you a story of something that happened to me yesterday. I was visiting my grandma at the care home and someone came up to me and starting talking about The Bachelorette. Like most times, there was a part of me that was SO tired of talking about it, but I saw how happy it made them, so I listened and gave them the usual lines about ‘what a journey it was’ and ‘how I have no regrets.’ And then he said to me, “I JUST ALWAYS HOPED YOU WOULD FIND YOUR HAPPINESS,” with a sad, somber tone. And that is where I get so confused. I said to him, “but I DID find my happiness!” There was just no convincing. He was convinced it had to have happened on the show or not at all. Probably because that’s ALL he saw of my personal life, so that’s all he knew…and that’s OK. I wasn’t mad; I just realized I couldn’t argue with him.